Life: How I define

§  Hey, “what’s your perception about LIFE?” – my friend asked me

ü  In regars?

§  Overall – he replied

ü  My answer was “Life is a battle where you don’t have any chance to rest. The end of the battle is your death.”

§  Well said – he commented.

ü  I added – “You may have seen in movies based on the ancient battles, warriors fought with all their power but falls no sooner had the battle ends. Similarly, you have to fight all these day of your life, each and every moment. Fights now took different form. Few times you will get to refresh.”

Though I’m not so consistent in thinking about life, I tried to define life in different stages. And it took different form or shape. Now a days, life seem to be as above to me.

v  Life is nothing but repetition of some events.

v  Life is total of some feelings, feelings of sorrow, happiness, achievement etc.

Above two different conclusions, I made in different time of my life which I could remember. Many times I think all are correct, sometimes none. I don’t know whether it’s my disability to define life or life itself is so complicated that can not be defined. Probably, I’m not the right person to define life accurately, but I strongly believe that each and everyone should have their personal view about different aspect/issues including life. That’s why I always tries to define.

Love for Child

“A mother, along with two children, was dead & she grabbed these children with chest till death” as fire crash caused more than 117^a deaths at Old Dhaka’s Nimtoli on Thursday last. This was most devastating fire crash of time I could remember. Govt. mourning day has been declared which is June 5 (today).

My writing is not to inform the event because most of the people, inside and outside the country know it. I just want to focus on that specific matter I have started with. It’s a matter of realization. Though I don’t think myself capable to explain it or even express my feelings; I could not but write it.

Though death was the ultimate result; these mother didn’t allow her child to go anywhere. What does the event refers to? Did she want her children die?

To me, the answer is no. Rather the matter is that she showed the ultimate love & affection to children, they give birth. I do believe that’s the way a mother loves her children in our country.

Source:

1.  a.    Daily Prothom Alo, June 5, 2010

Smoking: Why I do...

Needless to discuss about the efforts & speeches of institutions or even individuals about the harm of smoking around us. No doubt, smoking is a bad habit. But what I want to tell is some benefit that a person can get from smoking & probably cannot get from anywhere else. These are as follows

1. Much better company,

2. Tool for refreshment,

3. A means for restarting &

4. Best channel for faster intimacy.

There are many people who may argue against these above benefits. But, I can say, much better company in some cases like waiting for someone, being along from various reason for long periods etc. Again, when we are bored being nothing to do, or overwhelmed with jobs and so on. And the greatest benefit I found is that people become friendly so quickly by that. I strongly believe that people cannot be so friendly by any other way.

Frustration...

When I was student, I thought "I would be the member of  WISE & KNOWLEDGEABLE people after the completion of my degree. But very unfortunately, I came to know that I know nothing (compared with these wise people I would like to be).

That made me so tensed!!!

And make me realized that "The education introduces people with the area (aspect) of knowledge rather than providing."

I was confused for few days & was thinking.... & finally decided to start study again. Simultaneously, I was trying to find the way that will provide me knowledge within very sort time & concluded with the thinking "Human being will know/learn much more with sharing rather reading/studying."

Then was looking for new friends. A lot of option are available around us. But most of these are being used to talk (share) very silly topics. I don't know why? & don't know how to change the situation...

Now I'm little bit frustrated & looking for some friend who want to share...